Str8 goes gay
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I’m a year-old masculine linear guy who loves exploiting the fantasies so many gay men have about straight men. When a gay guy is into me because I stare like his straight-masculine-jock envision, it’s a power trip like no other. It’s always a specific type of bottom gay dude I seek out when I get on Grindr: a very feminine “thicc” guy with a attractive face and physical features begging for a dick. The kind of guy where from the right angles you can’t announce the difference between his big ass and a thicc chick’s big ass. And I always shadow the same script: I send my dick pics, I make one of these thicc bottom boys want me, and I tell him to mail me a video of him twerking like a stripper for me.
But I don’t go through with the meetup. I've experimented a few times and have gotten head from a few guys, but I have no interest in dick or fucking one of these dudes. I don’t want to harm anyone or survive a lie, but I don't feel queer or bisexual at all. I actually feel like I’m “earning my heterosexuality” when I do this. It's like I’m proving to myself just how direct I a Here’s a trend that has a lot of people confused. On dating website sites and apps there’s a growing new category: gay men seeking sex with straight men. Or straight men seeking sex with gay men. In America, there are reportedly more than three million men who identify as direct – but secretly acquire sex with other men. A recent piece on explored this trend, pointing out that 10 per cent of ‘male seeking male’ ads, were asking for men who did not identify as gay or bi. On top of this, 24 per cent of ‘male seeking male’ ads were actually posted by men who were not gay or bi. So why do straight men sometimes seek out same-sex attracted sex? Therapist Joe Kort, speaking to Salon, said that it wasn’t necessarily because these men are closeted or actually bisexual. Instead, he theorised that men merely enjoy how effortless it was to procure this type of sex. Many people become confused about this because they assess these men are queer or at least bi because they are hooking up with other men… But these men are not attracted to the men, they are attr How to Do It is Slate’s sex advice column. Have a question? Send it to Stoya and Rich here. It’s anonymous! Dear How to Perform It, I recently started dating again and have just recently been confronted by a situation that’s left me scratching my chief. I have met two men who would like to meet me, and they both are great! And, they both sound completely gay—like, out-of-the-closet, effeminate-speech queer. This is kind of a libido killer for me, and it makes my brain spin. I am not proud of my response, which is to not want to go out with them again. I can’t even tell if I sound homophobic here, but is it homophobic to be a direct woman and not want to date a gay m
This is why straight men sometimes seek out queer sex.
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